Five Things Men Need To Get Right To Achieve Masculine Mental Health

June is a month dedicated to masculine mental health awareness. This feels good especially as we see the deliberate efforts society is putting in to appreciate and reach out to men. Men also need to be comforted and reached out to. Men also need people to say that masculine mental health matters. To a great […]

Questions God Asks 06: “Where Have You Come From, And Where Are You Going?”

Knowing where you are in life is crucial. To understand where you are well, you need to know where you are from, and where you are going. If you know only where you are from and aren’t sure of your destination, you may take any direction. Unfortunately, not every direction leads to your desired destination. […]

The Power of Appreciation

“Appreciation is a wonderful thing. It makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well.” – Voltaire A couple of months back I received some random appreciative feedback from a client regarding the quality of work done for them. For a moment, I was in awe. At least someone noticed my professional competence […]

Reclaiming Manhood: Reflections and Solutions for a Dignified Future

May 16 is reckoned worldwide as The International Day of the Boy Child. Although it may have passed without much pomp and color, I dedicate this space today to share my reflections on the kind of world the modern man lives in, the challenges he faces and what we can do to ensure the young […]

Questions God Asks 05: “Where is Abel Your Brother?”

Brotherhood is one of the most significant ties we have this side of eternity. If you mess with someone’s brother you have equally messed with them, especially their small brother. This is why people with big brothers often ooze additional layer of confidence when interacting with their peers. I verily remember the statement, “I will […]

Vivre la vie

“Teach us to make the most of our time, so that we may grow in wisdom.” It is said that old is gold. Yes, old is incomparably priceless and inconceivably graceful. Quite frankly though, despite its glee and glam, old is oftentimes seen as bleak and weak – lacking the iridescent sparkle of life compared […]

Questions God Asks 04: “Why Are You Angry? And Why Has Your countenance Fallen?”

Anger is not a good thing to experience. Anger interferes with your well-being and capacity to appreciate the goodness of life in many ways. Here are some of the pronounced ways in which anger affects people: In summary, anger affects us in diverse ways. These ways cover a spectrum of categories including physical effects, emotional […]

Questions God Ask 03: “What Is This You Have Done?”

The third question God asked in the Bible still revolves around the fall of man. It is rarely given attention, yet perhaps, it deserves much more attention from us. This is a question that God directed to Eve. Let us read it in the scriptures: “And the Lord God said to the woman, “What is […]

Questions God Asks 02: Who Told You That You Were Naked?

The second question of the Bible has to do with nakedness. So he said, “I heard Your voice in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; and I hid myself.” And He said, “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree of which I commanded you that […]

Questions God Asks 01: Where are You?

This is the first question that God ever asked. It is recorded, “Then the LORD God called to Adam and asked him, “Where are you?” (Genesis 3:9) It is a simple question, right? You can simply say, “I am in the house, I am on my way to town, I am at work,” et cetera. […]